I was just sitting around waiting for the water to boil and thought that I am going through now is much that recovery time after my episodes more than a decade ago. Except this time Cherry isn’t around. Hence I thought of tweeting … “tired and uninspired” again.
This week has been really weird and strange for me. It’s slightly like that that time after I had my cerebral infarctions. I’ve had two.
I went to work last Monday and when I woke up on Tuesday I felt … wobbly. W T F. Nothing occurred that would give me that much stress so wtf. My balance is a little off. My speech is a bit slow but I do not think it’s slurred. No headaches or pains. I do not think it’s another infarction but I am precautions. So I am moving much more to keep active and have been reading aloud to practice my jaw and speech. So I feel I have improved much since that Tuesday and I will remain active.
So I am crossing my fingers.
I have been going through my medium to long-term to-do/promises list in my head and I realized that I have just recently been ticking off a couple of major items. I know it’s not many but these items have been on my list for years — some, for a decade — so it’s a major thing for me to finally check them off. And I can also see crossing off several more in a couple of years.
It’s vaguely satisfying. You saw something years ago that you have get to or do but you know it will take a good amount of time and effort to get to and now you realize you’re standing on that place. And it seems that the other places you have to get to or the things that you have to do is so much easier to reach than it was all those years ago.
It has been 1,500 days since she left. I’m not really one for counting the days. I just know she’s been gone for four years. Come to really think of it, that’s quite a long time and with all the hell and things and stuff that has gone through in my brain, I’m not so sure how I got out of it with my head still more or less straight. I’m not even sure if I ever got out of it. One never knows with these things. But then I’m writing this stuff down so I guess things are still moving as the universe intended it to be.
Sometimes you feel you’re just a passenger going somewhere you don’t know.
I dreamt of her a few days ago. I do not remember most of it now but I do remember feeling so delightfully surprised upon seeing her and it seemed that that was her plan all along and she was laughing out loud because the surprise worked. And then we gave each other a lengthy I-missed-you-so-much kind of hug. It felt so real like I wasn’t dreaming at all. But I knew I was dreaming and I also knew I didn’t want to wake up … yet. But I eventually did wake but I still thought it was a good dream.
So, for those who care to know, I am fine. I feel better than the week before. I look old, time-wearied, assuredly tired and broken in a few corners and places. But generally, I’m fine. The world turns and since I am still alive there are responsibilities to take care of. There is still walls and spirits to mend.
I woke up to a somber morning. It was still dark and the smells of last night’s air still lingered about. The streets were unusually quiet for my neighborhood even at this time. It’s either people are still asleep or have gone to their hometowns for All Souls Day.
All Souls Day.
Then names of people come streaming to mind. Rosario. Juanita. Doroteo. Dennis. Beatrice. Gregoria. Alberto. Nenita. Michael. Emmanuel. Rene. Sonia. Michaela. Bea. There are many more but I do not remember now but then, I’ve always been bad at remembering names.
The streets was still asleep as I stepped out to head for the office. Meng, wrapped in a thin blanket, was still sleepy on his tricycle.
I wonder if they knew that I was thinking of them. I wonder if they knew that I see their faces in the places I get to visit or in the moments I remember. Sometimes, I wonder if they are actually watching over me or is it just in my head. Then I see some pouting face form in my head. Well, I hope they are watching.
The bus was cold but the seat is comfortable and I settle in and nap.
I remember a series of moments strung together with each name. That widening smile when we see each other. That boisterous laughter. That facial or vocal expression only that person can give me. The way they’d take may hand or scratch my back. I remember broken images of the way they would tell a story.
I wake just a couple of blocks from my stop. Ned or Ted gives me my coffee and I walk to the office.
Tonight I am going to light a candle for all those names and all those remembered moments. All Souls Day. I hope they’re watching and smiling at me.